S*Marts Workshops: How to Handle Harassers and Bullies
My interactive workshops and explorations offer tools and approaches to work and life challenges presented with energy and humor. In addition to the examples below, I can create a custom workshop to meet your organizational or programmatic needs. Workshops can be adapted for a 60-minute, 90-minute, half-day or full day presentation. Topics can be combined for multi-day retreats.
Career and Leadership Development workshops focus on communication skills, emotional intelligence, and how to develop resilience, reduce stress, and increase ease and satisfaction at work.
Assertiveness and Anti-Harassment Training offers effective approaches and tools for resisting harassment and bullying, and ways to act as an ally when others are being harassed.
No Means No: Anti-Harassment Assertiveness Training for the Workplace and Beyond
Even the best anti-harassment policies and procedures don’t address the sense of vulnerability and stress experienced by the targets of harassment. Having the skills and knowledge to respond effectively in the moment can reduce that stress.
This workshop covers what to do in the moment when you are the target of sexual and gender-based harassment, and how to make it clear when attention or advances are unwanted.
Participants actively learn and practice responding in variety of harassment scenarios. The methods to be taught are based on experience and research emerging from more than 30 years of research on effective response to harassment. The workshop emphasizes straightforward, practical techniques that can be learned and practiced by anyone. Topics may include:
- When and where to confront harassers
- How to recognize and respond to resistance testing
- Simple, clear and direct communication methods that work
- How to use your voice to command attention
- Stop being nice: the opposite of nice is not nasty
- Importance of body language, tone of voice, choice of words
- Subtle ways to avoid unwanted touch
- The big squeeze: How to shake hands without pain
- How to intervene safely and effectively as a witness or bystander.
Throughout the workshop I will invite attendees to talk about their own experiences, or those they have witnessed and heard about. We will use those experiences to create practice scenarios for the participants.